Thank you Limpy. Getting shot in the back sucks and I did sprint right past you right after shooting you so I understand it. You stepped up your maturity and sportsmanship later in the day with the safety kill being out of range call and getting shot when asking about the range. I know that can be disappointing and I was glad to see you conducted yourself there well. You are fine in my book bro.
Camaraderie > The game.
Giving up your position/advance/life/win to talk to a specific person about a poor call, not calling hits, or other misunderstanding or attitude then giving them time to cool off / consider it is always preferable to letting tempers and general accusations fly. Generally they step up their game afterword and it ends as friends or at least with respect.
If your temper is too hot to address them like that perhaps just stopping and walking up and giving them a knowing look? IF the person really did notice the hit and not call it that is all that will be going through their head. Purposeful cheaters always feel guilty. Or letting the admin do their job and talking to / banning if repeated once the admin sees it them selves?
As for the searching incident... Well if I'm looking for a hand held IED...got check a guy pretty well don't you? lol